<asp:DataList ID="DataList1" runat="server" OnItemCommand="DataList1_Item" DataKeyField="ID">
    <HeaderTemplate>
        <!-- 头部 -->
    </HeaderTemplate>
    <ItemTemplate>
        <div style="background-color:Red;"><%# Eval("age")%><asp:Button ID="Button1" CommandName="myedit" runat="server"
                Text="Edit" /><asp:Button ID="Button2" CommandName="mydelete" runat="server" Text="Delete" /></div>
    </ItemTemplate>
    <AlternatingItemTemplate>
        <div style="background-color:Green;"><%# Eval("age")%><asp:Button ID="Button3" CommandName="myedit" runat="server" Text="Edit" /><asp:Button ID="Button4" CommandName="mydelete" runat="server" Text="Delete" /></div>
    </AlternatingItemTemplate>
    <SeparatorTemplate>
        <hr style="height:1px;" />
    </SeparatorTemplate>
    <SelectedItemTemplate>
        <!-- 选中行样式 -->
    </SelectedItemTemplate>
    <EditItemTemplate>
        <div><asp:TextBox ID="TextBox1" runat="server" Text='<%# Eval("age") %>'></asp:TextBox>
            <asp:Button
                ID="Button7" CommandName="myupdate" runat="server" Text="Update" /><asp:Button ID="Button8" CommandName="mycancel" runat="server"
                    Text="Cancel" /></div>
    </EditItemTemplate>
    <FooterTemplate>
        <!-- 底部 -->
    </FooterTemplate>
</asp:DataList>

using System;
using System.Data;
using System.Data.SqlClient;
using System.Configuration;
using System.Web;
using System.Web.Security;
using System.Web.UI;
using System.Web.UI.WebControls;
using System.Web.UI.WebControls.WebParts;
using System.Web.UI.HtmlControls;

public partial class _Default : System.Web.UI.Page
{
    //private SqlConnection conn = new SqlConnection(ConfigurationManager.ConnectionStrings["Sql"].ToString());
    private SqlConnection conn = new SqlConnection("server=(local);uid=sa;pwd=sa;database=Northwind;");

    protected void Page_Load(object sender, EventArgs e)
    {
        conn.Open();

        if (!IsPostBack)
        {
            BindData();
        }
    }
    protected void Page_UnLoad(object sender, EventArgs e)
    {
        conn = null;
    }
    private void BindData()
    {
        SqlDataAdapter sda = new SqlDataAdapter("Select Top 10 * From Table1", conn);
        DataSet ds = new DataSet();
        sda.Fill(ds, "Table1");
        DataList1.DataSource = ds.Tables["Table1"].DefaultView;
        DataList1.DataBind();
    }
    protected void DataList1_Item(object source, DataListCommandEventArgs e)
    {
        if (e.CommandName == "myedit")
        {
            DataList1.EditItemIndex = e.Item.ItemIndex;
            BindData();
        }
        else if (e.CommandName == "myupdate")
        {
            string loginname = ((TextBox)e.Item.FindControl("TextBox1")).Text;
            string id = DataList1.DataKeys[e.Item.ItemIndex].ToString();

            SqlCommand cmd = new SqlCommand("Update Table1 Set age='" + loginname + "' Where ID=" + id, conn);
            cmd.ExecuteNonQuery();

            DataList1.EditItemIndex = -1;
            BindData();
        }
        else if (e.CommandName == "mydelete")
        {
            string id = DataList1.DataKeys[e.Item.ItemIndex].ToString();

            SqlCommand cmd = new SqlCommand("Delete From Table1 Where ID=" + id, conn);
            cmd.ExecuteNonQuery();

            DataList1.EditItemIndex = -1;
            BindData();
        }
        else if (e.CommandName == "mycancel")
        {
            DataList1.EditItemIndex = -1;
            BindData();
        }
    }
}